What is an accountability buddy system or partnership? Working with someone else to stay on track with completing tasks that move each of you toward your goals. Tell your partner what you intend to do and by when, then report back if you did it. You can add more to it if you want, such as asking your buddy to encourage you or enforce consequences if you don’t complete your actions. You can be in touch daily, weekly or some other time-frame.
As I’m an independent consultant, I often spend time with others who have their own businesses or work independently. For a while now, I’ve heard people around me talk about “accountability partnerships” but until recently I’ve resisted. Here’s why:
- Priorities change – if I said yesterday I was going to do something, then get an important call from a client, the other action can go out the window
- I don’t like being told what to do and this feels a bit like reporting to a manager
- I like to keep things simple – the fewer emails I have to send or calls I have to make, the better
Despite all of that, I have realized that having an accountability buddy can work for me. When I’m working on a client project, the deadline keeps me focused. However, I have some tasks that I’ve set for myself, that don’t have deadlines (and just writing a date on it doesn’t help). Here’s why I like having a buddy:
- Choosing a task to tell my buddy I’ll commit to helps me to focus on what’s important
- Knowing I’ll have to report back to my buddy creates a deadline that feels real
- I get my tasks done (like writing this blog!)
How to set up your own accountability buddy system:
- Choose someone who wants to report back on the same time frame as you
- Agree to the format: will you email or call each other? When? What will you include? Keep it brief so it doesn’t become a burden!
- Agree to be flexible – you can drop tasks if there’s a real reason (not an excuse!) to do so
- Ask the other person what support they want or need from you, for example, encouragement, reminders, or consequences!
- Agree a timeframe to try it out
Once you’ve worked with your buddy for a while, notice and discuss what’s working and what isn’t, then agree to any changes if you decide to continue. I think many people can benefit from the focus and commitment that will lead to increased productivity.








